Is this proper treatment?

My boyfriend and I have been broken for a few mos. He had been hanging out in bars at least 4-5 times a week. I have found girls #’s on his caller ID, face wash and hair clips in his bathroom, and a pair of nurses scrubs in his drawer. He says they belong to his daughter’s friends or some BS like that. I don’t believe him. I’m afraid of having sex w/ him, although I have a few times because I was pressured, but I made him wear protection. He got all pissed off and showed his A**. He says I have a phobia and that the only way to get over it is to have unprotected sex w/ him and move past this (we want to get married and possibly have a child). But right now, I don’t trust him and I can’t make myself do it. Is this proper treatment for a phobia, if I have one, or is he trying to get what HE wants, as usual? Should I dump him? aa

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